How do I need to be in order to be with you? With a NOW and NEXT lens (guest post by Sheridan Forster for AAC Awareness Month 2025)

I was honored to be invited to make a guest post about my work.

I am not going to be talking about apps or devices or symbol sets.

I am going to talk about meeting a person with a communication disability. Perhaps a person who has a severe or profound intellectual disability, or perhaps they don’t.

The first question in my mind is “How do I need to be in order to be with you?”  This might include where I sit, the speed and complexity of speech or not using speech, the amount of eye gaze, use of touch, degree of directness in interaction or referring more to the things around us. I observe what is responded to and what is not. I adjust what I do with an open mind to the needs for accommodations. I look for the sweet spot in which there seems to be some shared meaning, perhaps indicated in a lingered gaze, a leaning in, a responsive initiation directing the next step in our engagement.

Everyone I meet communicates expressively and receptively – and this is no exception for people with severe or profound intellectual and multiple disabilities. This might be their ALTERNATIVE communication to speech. They might communicate with symbols or without symbols. I explore how to fit myself to their receptive abilities and promote their expressions in each moment of engagement.

I consider things from the NOW and NEXT lens. 

How are they communicating today, and how do I fit into that present way of communicating? For some people, communicating with them in a way that meets their current communication needs is lacking. For the person who engages best through touch, eye gaze, and a person sitting in physical contact to feel their changes in muscle tone with pleasure or displeasure, too often they are surrounded by partners relying solely on using speech towards them that they may not hear or process. 

The first principle of my work is to guide interactions towards meeting current communication needs. This is no easy task when people may require highly individualised forms of communication and a cultural shift around them. Sadly much research has indicated that proffered interactions can be few and far between in group homes, can be unattuned to individual communication levels, and can ask partners to interact in a new way. 

Much of my work is seeing when interaction does work and promoting this. A staff member sitting on the floor is recognised as attunement. A staff member repeating back the sounds of a person is seen as having a conversation without words that enables reciprocity. Seeing someone actively interpreting the movements of someone towards them is celebrated as valued social engagement – much like the relational doses discussed by Bruce Perry in the Neurosequential Model of Therapeutics.

Getting NOW communication right can be the entire focus of communication supports. Often latent (skills always there but rarely showed) communication skills and sometimes new skills may arise through better attuned interaction

This dynamic, moment to moment engagement involves far more than what might be written in a gesture/symbol dictionary or communication profile. Often the dynamics of sustained engagement are best captured through video recordings and rich discussions of the possibilities inherent in real engagement. 

Sometimes NEXT communication skills might be worked on. But these are never worked on in isolation to the NOW communication skills. A firm foundation or shared meaning using what the person can do now is needed to build new skills. 

For some people learning new skills is difficult and for some even maintaining present skills can be a challenge. It is perhaps analogous to a first and second language. For some people, their first language might be body language, facial expression, and sounds. Perhaps we aim to teach them a second language of pictures for communication. If we only speak to them using a second language that they have not mastered, there might be an absence of shared meaning. However if we maintain the use of their first language (albeit not a symbolic language), we maintain some form of shared meaning – such as a delight or interest expression – fundamental indications that the person is being noticed, witnessed, worthy of sincere attention and sharing of experiences.

“How do I need to be in order to be with you NOW and possibly NEXT?” is my starting point with each individual.


Want to learn more?

Join the “HOP: Hanging Out Program” Facebook group – a group focusing on people with severe or profound intellectual disabilities, bringing together research, good practice, and ethical considerations: https://www.facebook.com/groups/hangingoutprogram 


Website: https://sheridanforster.com.au 

About: https://sheridanforster.com.au/about/ 

Hanging Out Program: https://sheridanforster.com.au/passions/hanging-out-program-hop/

Helpful Links:  https://sheridanforster.com.au/links/ 


Note from Angela: I invited Sheridan to do this guest blog post during AAC Awareness Month to help boost the signal of her very important work. I enjoy the deep perspectives and resources that she shares in her Facebook group and I admire her willingness to speak up when online discussions in other groups become too narrowly focused on symbolic communication and high tech AAC. 


11/1/25: A must read related post by N of 1 on Facebook:

https://www.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=840384161829423&id=100075735411407


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Amazing new FREE app: Sesame Street and Autism

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Wow! I’m very impressed with this! Get amazing resources for kids & parents in this new FREE app: Sesame Street and Autism
https://appsto.re/us/MCg48.i

Also available online at: http://autism.sesamestreet.org. I didn’t see an Android version of the app yet but my guess is that it will be released soon.

I love that they have presented a well-balanced view of Autism…. both the positives & the challenges. Also love seeing several real life examples of AAC use. Excited to see AAC use out in the mainstream media 🙂

Love, love, love this new song:

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More about the project: http://www.people.com/article/sesame-street-introduces-autistic-muppet

The story behind why this new Sesame Street​ Autism initiative is so awesome… they took the time to include Autism self-advocates in the process of developing it!

The Autistic Self Advocacy Network​, ASAN, is proud to be a partner in Sesame Workshop’s “Sesame Street and Autism: See Amazing in All Children” initiative. Over the past year, ASAN has worked closely with Sesame Workshop to ensure that the initiative and its materials are positive, respectful, and promote real understanding and acceptance of autistic people. The See Amazing initiative represents an important step forward in public conversations aimed at autism, one focused on celebrating all kinds of minds.”

ASAN Statement on Sesame Workshop’s “See Amazing” Initiative

https://www.facebook.com/AutisticAdvocacy

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More cool behind the scenes info: http://autism-daddy.blogspot.com/2015/10/sesame-street-autism-my-2-worlds.html

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Why is the new Sesame Street character is a girl? How did they choose the traits she would have?

“Children with autism vary in their traits significantly: some can talk, while others can’t. Many of them are sensitive to noise. Some have trouble keeping eye contact, and many of them experience the world differently, so they’ll touch different objects to explore the sensation of texture. Perhaps because of this range, autism is also extremely controversial. While some organizations, such as Autism Speaks, consider autism a syndrome that calls for research to help mitigate its effects, others, such as the Autism Self-Advocacy Network, simply view autism as an alternative way of expressing oneself….”

Read the whole post at: http://www.latimes.com/local/education/community/la-me-edu-sesame-street-autistic-muppet-girl-julia-20151022-htmlstory.html

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‪#‎SeeAmazing‬
‪#‎AACawareness‬
‪#‎Autism‬
‪#‎SpecialNeeds‬

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Angela Moorad, MS, CCC-SLP
Speech-Language Pathologist
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Angela Moorad is the founder of OMazing Kids, LLC and is an ASHA certified & licensed pediatric Speech-Language Pathologist and Kids Yoga Teacher with over 25 years experience working in a variety of settings (early intervention, schools, teletherapy & a nonprofit pediatric rehab hospital for children with developmental disabilities). She is an app beta tester for educational & therapeutic app developers and loves sharing info about great apps and tech products to use with kids of all abilities.

Embarking on an AAC Voyage ~ Keep Sailing

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“To reach a port, we must sail – sail, not tie at anchor – sail not drift.”

How does this quote relate to ‪Augmentative and Alternative Communication (AAC) & AAC Awareness‬? I’m glad you asked!

  • It is not okay to get stuck in the whirlpool of “proving” a child has met some outdated “prerequisites” before implementing meaningful communication.
  • It is not okay to set anchor at the “Cape of No Hope”… where assumptions are made on the child’s diagnosis and expectations set low.
  • It is not okay to drift at sea with no clear goals to get meaningful communication options in place.

We must ‪presume competence & work together to sail the ship to port. All aboard…. the ‪AAC ship is setting sail  🙂

Happy AAC Awareness Month! Follow the journey under the hashtags #AACfamily  #AACawareness #BecauseOfAAC & #PresumeCompetence.

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Angela Moorad, MS, CCC-SLP, IAYT, RCYP-2

Speech-Language Pathologist

Founder of OMazing Kids, LLC – inclusive wellness activities for kids of all abilities

Radiant Child Yoga Certified – Levels 1 & 2

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